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1. 19 Aug 2009 16:40 | ||
I just want to feel like I get up in the morning for a reason. is that so bad? |
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2. 19 Aug 2009 16:45 | ||
I am right with ya merc... You are not alone... better days will come... you will see... |
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3. 19 Aug 2009 17:12 | ||
hey you zero:> time for a break????????? a change??????? just get your bum out of bed tommorrow and live:> take a chance:> be bold and brave and do some thing you never did before:> |
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4. 19 Aug 2009 17:36 | ||
Hey zero matthew is right we all feel that way. Sometimes I feel that Im barely treading water and if I dont get my feet under something solid I will drown! But I keep on swimming and I find that Im always closer to the shore than I thought! |
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5. 19 Aug 2009 17:51 | ||
ZeroM, sorry you are feeling down. We all feel that way at times, I believe. Often the best way to feel "up" again is to reach out, as you are doing. Sending good vibes your way..... |
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6. 19 Aug 2009 18:00 | ||
I could do my famous pole dance... |
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7. 19 Aug 2009 18:29 | ||
I just feel totally lost, cant commit to anything. want to be with somebody... but i just go a divorce about 9 months ago so i think its too soon. |
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8. 20 Aug 2009 01:53 | ||
Stay with us, ZeroMerc ... I've had at least one proposal of marriage on this site! LOL. Seriously though, I understand what you're going through ... it happens to many of us, for varying reasons. The trick is to start doing something new ... not something that consumes you but just enough to take your mind off your woes, for a good part of the day. You'll come through it ... with a little help from your friends and something to keep the sad thoughts out of your mind (or overshadow them, at least).. |
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9. 20 Aug 2009 06:34 | ||
Hey.. I think what ZeroMerc needs is a holiday ! |
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10. 20 Aug 2009 06:59 | ||
I love your idea marg! |
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11. 20 Aug 2009 07:05 | ||
.. will you be going First Class, indigo ? (just asking, in case you can take some of my extra bottles of vodka.. sorry, luggage.. you get more room in 1st) |
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12. 20 Aug 2009 07:11 | ||
Two stories for you ZeroMerc: |
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13. 20 Aug 2009 07:24 | ||
Well said ... all good advice. I'll add one thing ... exercise. It needn't be aerobics or any other form of programmed exercise. Marius mentioned walking in the outdoors and I can whole-heartedly recommend it for airing the brain as well as the body. Exercise of this kind, especially if done at a brisk pace, lifts me out of the doldrums without fail. You may have to force yourself to do it, but it does work! |
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14. 20 Aug 2009 07:52 | ||
Marg, I'm all for accompanying you (and anyone else who's willing) on a TD train ride. Perhaps we can persuade ZeroMerc to come with us. I'm afraid it would have to be a train ride, as the TD drive through the Dolomites just about put the old jalopy into retirment ... it was overloaded (you didn't need to bring a crate-full of your favourite tipple, marg). |
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15. 20 Aug 2009 08:20 | ||
Zero: Hang in there, we're rooting for you. I had depression based on my personal situation for a while. Cried so much during the day, even the dog became unsympathetic. Finally beat it by involvement with others, though that came to me slowly. Things even worse later, but I weathered it all well. Would recommend A Course in Miracles, but that's a tough go on your own. Maybe writers who have commented on it would help: Marianne Williamson & Gary Renard. Best wishes to you. |
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16. 20 Aug 2009 09:11 | ||
Zero, I haven't battled depression as some of the others have (I feel very fortunate in that regard) but I think marius's suggestions are great ones. Yoga has always given me a wonderful sense of doing something good for myself and the endorphins released from such activities and others are always good. Keep coming to this site if the act of drawing gives you pleasure and keep chatting with us. I've never found such a goodhearted group of people as there is here and I know many of would really like to help. I think I can safely say we are happy to help you and offer any support we can to you. |
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17. 20 Aug 2009 09:13 | ||
Oh and Marg, I am soooo on board for your train trip. (Login's plan of us only bringing as much liquor as we can carry ourselves might be thrown off a bit. A full grown Dragon can carry quite a few bottles of Cosmopolitan mix! Hehehe) |
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18. 20 Aug 2009 13:45 | ||
Hey zero I know a thing or two about depression. I am also divorced and have been for a few years. I was very down and upset over my divorce naturally but it seemed that I was constantly getting hit by one thing after another after my divorce. A year after the divorce I woke up at 4 in the morning with my house on fire, by the grace of god I was able to get myself and my 2 girls out unhurt. Several other things hit me but my depression kicked into over drive after a creep in the Wal mart parking lot stuck a gun to my head and said he was going to blow my brains out in front of my kids because all the money I had to give him was 3 dollars! I felt like a target, unlucky, not capable of caring for my kids....you name it. I went to counseling and It was my salvation! Im depression free now and so happy about life! Going to counseling taught me how to cope with the little dings that life throws at us. If you feel that your feelings dont improve or get worse I highly recommend it! Also reaching out the way you have here is a great way to start! This site has amazed me at how people you have never met and will more than likely never meet actually care and give you support! |
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19. 20 Aug 2009 14:04 | ||
well... I feel like a schmuck. |
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20. 20 Aug 2009 14:08 | ||
Like I said, Been there done that... I find this site to be a great place to share my life & feelings... |