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21. 20 Mar 2010 12:18 | ||
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oh, yea 1 more thing: when ur sad, another thing u can do is rub the inside of ur arm. |
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22. 21 Mar 2010 08:37 | ||
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GOLDIEGIRL8, I've not heard of rubbing the inside of your arm for sadness. Where on the inside of your arm? The whole arm? The top part, the bottom part? |
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23. 22 Mar 2010 11:38 | ||
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All these cool techniques for feeling better may help, but if they don't, don't blame yourself. |
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24. 22 Mar 2010 13:08 | ||
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chelydra's right. The problem with bottling up your feelings is that you never work through them and by the time you just can't keep them under wraps it just as bad if not worse for having sat so long, and it's harder to deal with because you think - it's been so long, this shouldn't be bothering me anymore. |
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25. 22 Mar 2010 13:43 | ||
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26. 22 Mar 2010 15:02 | ||
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Q: Congrats on your story winning, richly deserved. |
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27. 22 Mar 2010 17:57 | ||
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You know I've always found writing very therapeutic. That's a great suggestion chelydra. Even if Taters only writes it for herself and for no one else to read just the act of writing everything out and expressing feelings on an empty page can really help you work things through. Being able to read through it later can remind you of how far you've come in healing and what you were going through years later. |
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28. 22 Mar 2010 18:46 | ||
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Tatertot im sorry to hear what your going through. Im fixing to turn 12 and I have never experienced all the loss that you have but my parents are divorced like yours. My parents have never faught like that,but its hard for my sister and I because my dad far away. My mom gets mad at my dad sometimes. She gets mad at him because she thinks he's not very responsible from time to time. I also fight with my sis often because she messes with me alot and she dosn't give me any space. My mom says its because she wants to be like me. |
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29. 22 Mar 2010 23:21 | ||
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Chelydra what insight you have and Dragon also think your idea sounds very good and well worth trying out Potato but what is so lovely is that Ash12 a younger (sorry ladies) member of TD has found the heart to reach out and not only share her thoughts but try to help - I applaud you both. Potato try to keep smiling and share your feelings and talk/write. |
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30. 24 Mar 2010 18:16 | ||
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Thanks spam thats so sweet what you said about me. |
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31. 24 Mar 2010 19:18 | ||
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God... i hate puberty... |
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32. 24 Mar 2010 19:18 | ||
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:P |
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33. 24 Mar 2010 19:35 | ||
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Pimples are awesome!!! NOT! |
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34. 24 Mar 2010 20:00 | ||
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Tater, sorry you're feeling blue. Puberty does stink at times, but the good news is that it too does pass. Pimples come and go, but the beautiful you is still there. I also struggled in gym class years ago, but in the long run, it didn't matter. I think I turned out okay, and I believe you will, too. |
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35. 25 Mar 2010 02:14 | ||
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Tater dear, |
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36. 25 Mar 2010 02:21 | ||
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What I meant was, watch out you don't end up with a cri de loupe. Then when you do need emotional support for your internet fans again for real, as you might, they'll have moved on. (A cri de loupe is like a schtik-shreik only worse. Look it up if you don't believe me.) |
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37. 25 Mar 2010 02:22 | ||
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(typo) ...FROM your internet fans... |
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38. 25 Mar 2010 18:33 | ||
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Its ok potato my doctor says im over weight for my age plus im also the slowest in my class. Im not over weight by looks just by my doctors opinion. Im pretty short.Im exactly 4feet and 7inches tall:( |
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39. 26 Mar 2010 16:14 | ||
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Taters, Ash12 said something pretty good. Ur special, and remember that. |
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40. 26 Mar 2010 16:50 | ||
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Ash12, Taters...don't know if it's of any comfort to you, but all adults have gone through most of the phases you are talking about. Growing up is more about learning to control emotions and feelings and sometimes that's really no fun at all. Especially when you're sad and have to be professional about something. So my advice to you is to enjoy the privillege of showing how you feel. It helps, it really does, just don't go to extremes. And one more thing: we are all different, nobody's perfect. To be perfect, respected and loved is no big deal, to be yourself with million of faults and yet have people who offer you love and support, that's what makes a normal person become special. |